Mo·ti·va·tion
mōdəˈvāSH(ə)n/
noun
- the reason or reasons one has for acting or behaving in a particular way.
"escape can be a strong motivation for travel"synonyms:motive, motivating force, incentive, stimulus, stimulation, inspiration, inducement, incitement, spur, reason;
informalcarrot
"his motivation was financial"- the general desire or willingness of someone to do something.
"keep staff up to date and maintain interest and motivation"synonyms:enthusiasm, drive, ambition, initiative, determination, enterprise;
informalget-up-and-go
"keep up the staff's motivation"
- the general desire or willingness of someone to do something.
““My get up and go has got up and went.” - Anonymous”
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We have all felt that way at some point. Because motivation is a very personal thing. Some are motivated by money. Others are motivated by fame. But research suggests that what really motivates us is a feeling of significance. Feeling that you are making a contribution, that you are seeing progress in the activities you do, fuels satisfaction in work, play, and relationships.
How can you create a space, a day or a life that fosters feelings of significance and meaning? It would be fantastic if we got that encouragement from the others, and sometimes we do, but the most important source of inspiration has to come from within.
Engage with Yourself
Finding meaning in your life - particularly if many of the tasks you perform in the course of the day seem rote and meaningless - may seem daunting. A method I suggest is to take time every day to reflect. During that daily reflection period ask yourself some simple questions.
- What are three things in my life for which I am grateful?
- What are three things that I want to happen today, this week, this month, this year?
- If I were to make those three things happen, how would it feel?
Do this exercise daily without judgement. The purpose is to identify the good in your life, to list your aspirations, and to turn those aspirations into specific, measurable, achievable, realistic and time-bound (S.M.A.R.T.) goals.
The people around you may not nourish you, and every activity may not engage you. But you can nourish and engage yourself. Once you begin to see where you are, understand and identify what you want, and set goals for getting there, you will attract the opportunities and the individuals you need to have that juicy life.
"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." - Laozi
Let today be the day you take one step toward the life you want and deserve.